New job, new identity!
Have you ever wanted to make a radical change in your life? My name's Igor, and for the past 12 years, my life has revolved around books, exams, and endless study sessions. I recently wrapped up my high school journey with the demanding IB program. But instead of diving straight into university, I decided to take a year off. Since I remember I wanted a taste of independence, a chance to test my abilities outside the classroom. So, I overcame my self doubts and applied for my first job. Join me as I share this exciting new chapter in my life, hear about my triumphs and challenges!
First challenge that I faced were my parents. They were worried that taking a gap year would set me back academically. They feared that I would forget the knowledge I had gained in high school and that it would be difficult to relearn it later. They were also concerned about the physical and mental toll of working long hours at a supermarket. Despite their concerns, I persisted. Never before had I felt so determined. I believed that it would be a valuable experience that would help me grow as a person. I also knew that I could manage my time wisely and balance work with leisure activities.
Photo of the shop that employed me
In my hometown of Kalisz, I applied for a job at a local supermarket. Here there are not many job opportunities so I was quite surprised how quickly I was offered a position. I was thrilled to start finally working and prove to my parents wrong.My first day at the supermarket was a tumult. At first I was so excited to start, but I quickly realized that it would be a lot harder than I thought. So stressed I was, that products were falling out of my hands when I was stocking shelves. My employer was patient and helpful. She showed me the correct way of doing things and although I made a lot of mistakes, I learned from them quickly. I also learned how to manage my time and work efficiently. By the end of the day, I was exhausted, but I felt a sense of accomplishment.
As the days went on and on I was getting better and better. After only a month of work, I gained so much experience that it changed my view of the world. I started valuing my time not only at work but also at home. Honestly most differences in my behavior I started noticing at my house. I felt more productive, I was doing chores as soon as I got the chance. On top of that, I started treating people with respect and kindness, never seen in me before.
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Such an amazing story, Igor! I relate to your experience because I had a similar one. One year ago I applied for my first job as a guard and guide at a historic building during a festival. I was stressed in the begginig but later on I felt more comfortable. At the end of the week that I have worked for I felt there almost at home. I have even become friends with my bosses!
OdpowiedzUsuńRight now I feel like this experience made me develop as a person even though I had to stubbornly go along my POV when my parents didn't want to allow me to go there. In the aftermath, we are both glad that we agreed upon that thing!
It's very inspiring to see how you embraced the challenge of stepping out of your comfort zone and took charge of your own growth. Your determination to prove yourself, both to your parents and to yourself, is truly commendable.
OdpowiedzUsuńI really admire how you turned what could have been a stressful experience into a learning opportunity. The way you describe the transformation in your perspective and behavior—valuing time, being more productive, and showing newfound respect for others—is a powerful reminder of how even seemingly small changes, like taking a job, can lead to profound personal growth.Your story resonated with me because I’ve also experienced a shift in my outlook after starting my first job. It taught me the value of hard work and responsibility, much like your experience at the supermarket. It’s incredible how these moments can reshape our views on life and relationships.I can’t wait to read more!
I completely agree with you! Making bold changes in life is essential for growth and self-improvement. Embracing challenges and trying new things allows us to gain valuable experience and evolve as individuals. Your story is truly inspiring, standing up to your parents and proving them wrong takes courage and determination. I remember when I decided to move to a new city for a job. It was very difficult at first but eventually I adapted to a new environment. That experience transformed me. I also believe that stepping into a completely new situation and setting meaningful goals are key to personal growth. I hope more people find the strength and bravery to take risks, just as you did.
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OdpowiedzUsuńWow, Igor, that was such an inspiring story, I am impressed! Congratulations on your courage in making such an important decision. I can see that this experience has benefited you and made you a better-organized person. I am so glad that you didn't listen to your parents since this job was such a fantastic learning opportunity. Your story reminded me of my own experience when I decided to move to another city, where I didn't know anyone! It was stressful at first, as being in a new environment can be overwhelming. However, I decided to take this as a challenge. After a few weeks, I started to see a huge impact on me – I learned so much! Right now I am extremely grateful for this experience since I wouldn't be myself without this experience, it enabled me to grow.
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OdpowiedzUsuńFirst of all, I want to emphasize that you should be proud of yourself for stepping out of your comfort zone and undertaking such a challenge! No wonder that this event enabled you to grow as a person - become more principled and organized. I wish I could share a similar experience. However thanks to your story I decided to make change in my life, I applied for a job as a waiter at a local restaurant!
OdpowiedzUsuńA very interesting story and a valuable lesson to everyone. I'm so proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone and facing new challenges. I'm especially impressed by your courage to stand up against your parents and stick with your decision. It's really fascinating to me how determined and dedicated to your goal of being independent you had to be, and I admire it a lot. It reminds me of a time when I first started working at a local restaurant. Though, with some problems at first, such as serving an order to the wrong person or spilling the wine on the floor, I was able to learn the basics. Of course, I couldn't have done it without other co-workers who showed me the ropes, for which I'm grateful to this day. I hope you're doing well, and as somebody who had a similar experience to yours, I can assure you that you made a great choice and this gap year will teach you more about living on your own than the past 12 years of your education.
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